If a Man Wants You (Read and Share it Friends)

Posted: December 22, 2011 by Vinay Jalan in Moral Stories, Must Reads, True Love
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This advice was passed along to me from a counselor; it was great to hear so I wanted to share it.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better.
 

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve

then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”

A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself

a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,

Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
 

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has

more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man.

Oh Lord!  If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.

Think About it and Share With your Friends too

 

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Comments
  1. SEJA ADRY says:

    Good advice to our sisters

  2. Gracious Danladi says:

    Its always good 2 know & share the right thing. Thanks alot dear sister.

  3. lebo Rakgalakane says:

    wow.thanx 4 such a wonderful eye opening leason thank u

  4. Thandeka Dube says:

    It’s the best thing you can ever tell 2 all the ladies out there becoz let’s face women will always be insecure and need such inspiration 2 make them feel loved,special and beautiful.

  5. STUUTI says:

    Thnnnnxxxx fr sch a gud sugestionnnnnn
    i m in d horible stage of mah lifee…i lovee him soooo bt he duntttt….thnx fr sme favour n supoort

  6. i love this. it’s very true. such a beautiful way of giving advice to women.

  7. Margaret Tunidau says:

    Beautiful…

  8. Uuuf !
    Tough To Digest !

  9. ADEYANJU ADEMOLA says:

    YOUR OBSERVATION AND PRESENTATION ARE REAL.THEY ARE WORDS OF WISDOM.I LIKE THEM

  10. kingsley says:

    hmmm

  11. mark W says:

    And men, don’t put her up on a pedestal, or open a door for her, or slide her chair out when you’re at a restaurant, or stand up when she excuses herself to use the restroom. After all, she’s just a woman (not a queen). Don’t let her be a stay at home mom if you really want to be a stay at home dad (she’s not the mother AND father – she’s only the mother, and a father should have equal rights). See how that sounds when it gets flipped around?

  12. ruth mikky says:

    This is seriouse noted

  13. Hauwa Alka says:

    Wow! i’v got wt am looking 4.Tnx

  14. irene says:

    sad but true if a man wants u he would make u feel he wants u… he is a man nothing more nothing less… and we are all humans… wake up girls… its time to wake up 😦

  15. Caroline D'Cruz says:

    wonderful… agreed!!!

  16. lisa espinoza says:

    this is just what i needed at a time like this. i’m just in the process of going through a divorce from a marriage that i’ve been trying to work at for a few yrs now, but feels like forever. now i remember it takes two to make a relationship and two to work at it. it’s my choice to be alone in a marriage or alone, but maybe just being alone might bring some peace and happiness.;)xoxo lisa

  17. yambeko says:

    thats true hey that we live our world according to their principles and compromise where it doesnt worth.

  18. Amara grace says:

    Never plead a man 2 marry u

  19. harry says:

    all five fingers of hand are not same. all man are not same n u r telling all against man.. whr the all attitude n selfthinking grls gone….i think u all hv not wacthed “pyar ka panchnaama” the realty of grls is shown in this movie.. W.T.H. grls r from inside n they show to ppls from outside….

  20. loveday says:

    this is true

  21. Amaka says:

    Dats a very gud 1 4 ladys. I lik it vry much. Thanks pals

  22. I know many women say this “know” all the above… it’s good to be reminded every now and then and even better to see it in writing! 🙂

  23. Urvi says:

    There are some women who should read this at least once a week 🙂

  24. YoshiAnn says:

    This is wonderful!

  25. Edmund says:

    Thats correct!

  26. This is de best advice i never heard.. Abwt woman

  27. Tina says:

    Wat n advice m sooooh proud of u.thank u smuch

  28. Olamoyo kazeem kolawole says:

    I love this programm

  29. wonderful comment,a very gud advice 4 ladies

  30. Wuman dont cheat a man..
    Man dont cheat a wuman….

  31. Ajumobi Eniola says:

    A man starts a relationship and a woman finishes it. Either good or bad.

  32. Obuego rose says:

    Sista i tell u dis is touching,it really inspires me

  33. Bello says:

    Madam T.B Joshua. Epele ooo eku iwasuu

  34. Rachel says:

    True but we tend to give it a deaf ear too bad!!

  35. So true. I can relate! =) I love this one

  36. Nicholas says:

    Well put. It isn’t meant for only women but also for men

  37. neeru hanspal says:

    very true… pinching facts but Ya these r not unknown to any girl , its a matter of time until u face it yourself…

  38. Rahmat saino says:

    Its a nice story

  39. EVELYN DONGPOK says:

    ENJOYED READING

  40. EVELYN DONGPOK says:

    GUD ADVICE FOR ALL

  41. lisa says:

    I so needed to read this right now!! Thanks xo

  42. esther says:

    That’s inspiring 4 real. Congrats.

  43. Jenny brown says:

    Am so hapy 2 hear d dis taught, i realy learnt alot.

  44. Bolatito says:

    nice one

  45. Nikky ade says:

    This is a nice one, all single ladies must learn form this.

  46. Ojo kehinde. says:

    Nice and powerful words.

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